I was drawn to this book by the title and topic. I find the issue of motherhood, and modern mothering, the unwavering pressure on mothers and women, told from others perspectives, fascinating and comforting to read about. I think you’ll agree that the cover is sophisticated and sleek, with the cover image being beautiful and emotive.

Blurb:
“Babies who are this small, he says, have a good chance of survival. Small is not good for babies. It is not whimsical or cute or the cause of admiration. It is the first time it occurs to us that they might not survive. Babies die from smallness.”
Claire Lynch knew that having children with her wife would be complicated but she could never have anticipated the extent to which her life would be redrawn by the process.
This dazzling debut begins with the smallest of life’s substances, the microscopic cells subdividing in a petri dish in a fertility treatment centre. She moves through her story in incremental yet ever growing steps, from the fingernail-sized pregnancy test result screen which bears two affirmative lines to the premature arrival of her children who have to wear scale-model oxygen masks in their life-saving incubators. Devastatingly poignant and profoundly observant – and funny against the odds – Claire considers whether it is our smallness that makes our lives so big.
My thoughts:
Wow, what a gorgeous and poignant book. It is very original in its style and structure and that took some getting used to but I quickly became engrossed and captivated in Claire’s story.
So much of what is written resonated with me. The description of bleeding, being close to miscarriage and the aftermath rang so close to home I felt like I could be reading my own story.
There are obviously some very moving and touching moments in the book, as motherhood is arguably the most emotional journey of them all, especially when you consider all the ups and downs Claire and her partner experience. However, there is some lovely lightness in the book. There is a sense of hope, determination and purpose that echoes throughout and there is also some well-placed dry humour.
I have been thoroughly lost in this original, refreshing, beautiful tale and series of observations.
There is poignant and important discussions around society, gender roles and expectations and equality amongst all people. This is a personal and intimate book that carries a powerful and social message.
I would definitely recommend this book to anyone who enjoys memoir, non-fiction or emotional and beautifully written books.
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